The question is a bit vague, so I’m not sure exactly which issue you’re asking about.
Testing in the AudioPluginDemo VST3 on Windows 11 with 125% display scaling:
In REAPER 6.68, Cubase 12, FL 20, and Live 11.2, resizing a VST3 editor works correctly, both from the internal corner resizer, and from the host’s window border. TextEditor editing also works as expected. Closing and opening the editor preserves its size.